Somebody said “The love you receive from someone who knows how to be alone is the most sincere there is.
A solitary soul loves you by choice, not out of a need for company.” and that’s so true.
He visto hombres dejar relaciones de 5, 6 y hasta 10 años y casarse con una mujer que conocieron hace 6 meses y con su nueva pareja hacen todo lo que la ex les pedía que hicieran por ellas.
¿A dónde quiero llegar?
Deja de pedirle cosas, si no le nace jamás lo hará, no va a ser el hombre que tú quieres que sea porque tal vez tú no eres la mujer con la que él quiere estar por siempre, la gente cambia por quien quiere.
Sometimes you have to let a man go back to what he’s comfortable with. If he’s okay with chaos, inconsistency, and low standards, stop trying to fix it or turn him into something he’s not ready to be. That’s the life he’s choosing. Because the truth is… not everyone wants peace. Not everyone wants growth. Not everyone wants stability. And trying to pull someone into a better life they didn’t choose for themselves will only drain you. Let people stay where they feel at home. Holding onto someone who doesn’t align with where you’re going will only slow down your own growth. And don’t forget this, you’re not losing anything by letting go of someone who never truly valued you.
I sent him a “How did your day go?” and he sent me a 10-minute voice note telling me everything.
And that basically sums up the kind of person I want by my side. STOP normalizing disinterest.
Stop being available for people who would never rearrange their day for you. Actually have a life that comes first, and people will respect your time more.
Everybody isn't replaceable. Don't let this clout chasing and emotionally unavailable generation convince you that you should cut everyone off. Learn to communicate and resolve problems or you'll lose valuable people that you'll never find again.