Bisexuals do not have to be:
* equally attracted to all genders
* attracted to all genders all the time
* polyamorous
* sexually active
* visibly queer
... to be fully bisexual.
I just read the times article about cis men's opinions about abortion and forgot it completely because ... cis men's opinions about abortion do not fucking matter at all.
Do you know what’s a fun Twitter game? Ask your followers how tall you are. There are a ridiculous amount of people here that accurately predict height from vibes.
Hi! it’s your bi mom! Reminding you:
- good enough is good enough
- you can be bi and not like sex
- nobody is fine now and that makes everything harder. Anxiety is airborne.
- you belong and deserve a caring community.
- cherish the allies who see and embrace your whole self
I don't typically tweet about agents' rejections (as I also don't tweet about requests). But I received a rejection on a full today, for my "queer roller derby YA," because, the agent told me, he'd discovered I am married to a man. Ouch. 1/3
A friend just told me this and OF COURSE—
We queers deserve clarity and actual expressed interest.
And I’ll add —- we often accept less if we are still learning how to be healthy and vibrantly queer in a way that is true to ourselves. #bisexual#queerlove
I have lived and seen these patterns of deep and real love between queers suddenly imploding because we don’t have a map for navigating all the nuance. It’s normal fears of vulnerability which is hard. It’s also shame and a kind of starvation that makes it hard to be measured.
Hi to all the Kinsey 1.1’s and all the Kinsey 5.9’s you’re all perfect bisexuals.
(The Kinsey Scale is a flawed model but useful shorthand - the gender binary is a lieeeeeee)