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[. @scamaddicted]

I don't send anymore, don't text me

[R ⚡ @RG_Haze]

Gio makes you melt 🫠

[. @scamaddicted]

@Anti_findom_BR domme pretending to be my friend to keep me sending and another domme trying to convince me to kill myself when I told her I was depressed

[. @scamaddicted]

girls be like 🥰💕🥺❤️🥹 and then proceed to be absolutely horrible human beings

[. @scamaddicted]

some dommes may exploit that loneliness by pretending to be attached to you and to be "your friend" (yes, that happened to me). Don't let them. They're just making it harder for you to quit that dynamic because you'll be emotionally involved in it too, and crave their attention

[Anti-Findom @Anti_findom_BR]

Many finsubs fall into this fetish because of loneliness. Findom offers a false escape. Don’t let it convince you that money is the only way to get someone’s attention. Build up your social life and you’ll be able to form healthy relationships

✅64 days without findom

[. @scamaddicted]

She even told me "we're friends, if you don't want to do findom anymore we'll still be friends". And then started ghosting me for weeks as soon as I stopped sending, popping back now and then just to keep me hooked

[. @scamaddicted]

i could watch this video on loop for an hour, she's a different category

[. @scamaddicted]

I'm finally about to invest the majority of my savings so that I can't withdraw money easily and relapse:) honestly I should've done it long ago

[. @scamaddicted]

looking at Gio Scotti makes me happy, is that weird

[. @scamaddicted]

for someone with a heels fetish this is straight up porn, thanks Charli

[Flooooo @goonygirlyy]

Charli just posted porn😍😵‍💫

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

I can tell Findom is a damaging and difficult environment by the amount of accounts that are like ‘I HOPE YOU RELAPSE’ or throwing profanities. You see people supporting each other over something they’ve struggled with and your first instinct is to send ill wishes? 😂

[Anti-Findom @Anti_findom_BR]

You notice how fragile findom is when a simple criticism or call for awareness is enough to set off rage among most doms and dommes. They’re so childish they take everything personally. Then they complain when people call them online beggars

✅ 59 days without findom

[. @scamaddicted]

i guess it's time to read our old chats on lf and cry, the only chats that have not been deleted

[. @scamaddicted]

the possibility of me going back to her with big sends is the highest motivation to seek a higher paying job in a richer country. I'm too depressed to see any other reason to make money for. I want money because I want her in my life. No other reason.

[. @scamaddicted]

i miss her so much. today it's way worse than usual. i want to worship her so bad.

[. @scamaddicted]

I hadn't cried for her in over a year and today I did. When it ended I used to cry every single day for months. Even before it ended, just thinking about the fact that it had to end. I thought I was over it but I don't know what happened today.

[. @scamaddicted]

i miss her so much. today it's way worse than usual. i want to worship her so bad.

[. @scamaddicted]

I don't know who needs to hear this but DON'T relapse today. It's not worth it.

[. @scamaddicted]

it will get easier with time but thinking that we are supposed to "get rid of the urge" only makes us frustrated and more inclined to relapsing out of anger. We'll always have those weak moments, since it's an addiction that comes stronger when we have personal life problems

[. @scamaddicted]

i think that one of the most useful things we can do is abandoning the idea that we can just "get rid of findom". We have to accept that not engaging in findom will always be an active effort on our ends. Every month that we don't relapse is an accomplishment.