Shon Hyneman

I help divorced Christian men & women learn how to love again without repeating the same mistakes

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

It’s not that you don’t want love…you just don’t trust your decision-making anymore.

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[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

Dating gets simple when you stop trying to convince someone to see your worth.

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

Some people want a kingdom marriage with someone who has no interest in the King.

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

Social media will convince you love is dead while your future spouse is out here healing, growing, and praying you don’t give up

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

If I could remarry at 40, meet my wife on Instagram, date long distance, and get married just six months later, there’s still hope for you

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

You can lose 20 years of integrity in one night. Think first before you obey your thirst

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

Back in 2017, my wife and I were dating long distance when I proposed to her over Skype. The funny thing is, she wouldn’t get her ring in person until I saw her again three weeks later!

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

There were many things I didn’t do because fear drove my decisions. But overcoming my fear of remarrying was my greatest breakthrough and the moment I stopped letting fear control me

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

Major life changes require clear communication. Couples should share needs, feelings, and expectations to navigate transitions like new jobs, loss, or retirement. Conquer challenges together with a shared goal. #Communication #Relationships #LifeTransitions

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

Feeling lonely in a relationship? It often stems from not being heard, needs unmet, or feeling undervalued. True connection requires open communication about what makes you unhappy. #RelationshipTips #Loneliness

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

Defensiveness in relationships often stems from feeling unheard or unsafe to disclose true feelings. This lack of emotional safety can be rooted in past communication issues, trauma, or simply not knowing how to express oneself effectively. #RelationshipTips #Communication

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

Jumping off a bridge won't make you fly; you'll just hit the ground. Similarly, marriage doesn't erase problems—it magnifies them. No one is immune to life's fundamental laws. #LifeLessons #RealityCheck

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

Women often claim they want a man they can control, but that's a narrative. The truth is, they seek a man they can trust to lead. It's not about relinquishing control, but about finding a partner who provides direction and protection. #RelationshipTruths #Leadership #Trust

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

Is it men being dogs, or a reflection on her picking? When men complain about women, the response is often 'pick a better woman.' The same applies to women complaining about men. Not all men are like that. The pressure of time clocks ticking faster than we want pushes us to jump

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

Before marriage, Christian women should prioritize strengthening their spiritual life through prayer and fasting. Equally crucial is healing emotionally and financially—addressing past relationships, childhood, and generational trauma, along with understanding personal finances

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

Christian women often overlook the inner work when preparing for marriage. Instead of focusing solely on a partner's checklist, consider the character and value you bring to the relationship. What are you adding to create a strong foundation? #ChristianMarriage #InnerWork

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

Many are married, playing a role instead of being their authentic self. Marry someone who helps another become who they're called to be, not who you think they should be. Don't let your spouse miss out on the amazing person playing a role.
#Authenticity #Relationships

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

You know you're spiritually ready to be a wife when you stop idolizing marriage. It's not the destination; your preparedness is. Focusing on your relationship with God and working on yourself reveals true readiness. #SpiritualReadiness #MarriagePrep

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

Do you think you can truly know someone without knowing how they were raised?

[Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry]

How can he learn to stand if you never let him fall? True growth comes from allowing mistakes and letting people learn from their own experiences. Get out of their way and watch them grow. #PersonalGrowth #LetGo #LifeLessons