@jon_d_doe Showing little acts of love, appreciation, and concern can go a long way in keeping a marriage healthy.
Let’s not rush to blame the woman. If the man is the quiet type, he should learn to compliment and appreciate his wife from time to time, both publicly and privately.
@OyinLadun0 He’s a foolish man. A husband shouldn’t split bills with his wife unless she willingly agrees to it. Even when she does, he should find ways to appreciate her whether through gifts, thoughtful gestures.
@jon_d_doe That’s your wife, sir. You can’t compare her cravings and needs with those of other women. Maybe she used to seek validation on social media, but later outgrew it. Everyone is different and has their own preferences, needs, and ways they want to be appreciated.
from her husband.
Have we asked whether he compliments her when she dresses nicely? When she posts a picture on her WhatsApp status, does he react to it, or does he just view it and move on? Some men are like that.
It’s normal for a wife to tell her husband what she wants,
seriously damage trust. It depends on the circumstances. Marriage can survive financial problems more easily than it can survive persistent deception.
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If my partner hid a large debt before marriage, the biggest issue wouldn’t just be the debt, it would be the dishonesty. Debt can be managed, paid off, and overcome together. A deliberate decision to conceal something that significantly affects both partners’ financial future can
Having cars, a house, and money is comfort. Having someone who genuinely cares for you is a different kind of wealth. Stop forcing marriage on people, but stop pretending loneliness is peace too.
@ChisomAgbafor Having cars, a house, and money is comfort. Having someone who genuinely cares for you is a different kind of wealth. Stop forcing marriage on people, but stop pretending loneliness is peace too.
You did well as a man.
You resisted the temptation to rekindle feelings that should have remained in the past. Kudos to you for that. Most importantly, cut off communication with her completely. If she truly believed you were good enough to be with, she wouldn’t have chosen to be
Two years ago my ex came to my shop at Mandilas to inform me that she was getting married, she brought the wedding clothes and IV and also asked that I come to her wedding.
I didn’t go to the wedding however I sent her wedding gift, she called me after her wedding at night asking why I didn’t show up, I explained that I couldn’t because it would have been hard for me to sit through the wedding.