I’m convinced 90% of the founders job is to just do 3 things:
- be delusional in your optimism
- push everyone to move faster
- make it crystal clear what to work on
My man told me something the other day that lowkey rearranged my brain a little.
He said, “I’m not here to control you. I’m not your father, I’m your partner. You’re grown, you can make whatever choices you want. Just know every choice comes with consequences. If you pick something that hurts what we built, that decision belongs to you.”
Then he goes, “I’m always gonna tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s how real communication works. But if I show you where the line is and you keep stepping over it, then you’re not protecting us… you’re just choosing yourself.”
And yeah… that’s when it clicked for me. Accountability in a relationship isn’t yelling, rules, or control. It’s someone giving you freedom and trusting you to care enough not to misuse it.
Nigerian superstar Kizz Daniels on his marriage. In his own words why he married his wife despite troIIing that she's not beautiful enough for a man of his stature
"Ten years ago when I started music she believed in me, I’ll spend hours in the studio and she will bring me food. I remember her friends m0cking her that I can’t sing well. She and my brother stood by me. I’ll make a post and only her and my brother will like it. She even had to pay for my first song which was just 10 000 naira. Today I’ll give her 100m without even thinking"
The truth is men are grateful people, a man will never forget anyone who helped him in his time of struggle. A man will always be there for a woman who stood & respected him in his struggling days
All this talk about men leaving women once they're successful is a lie. The question is what were you doing when he was struggling? Most are just there, offering s£x nothing more.
Men reward loyalty
You don't actually NEED to pre-position too much.
Wait for the market to tell you what the hot narratives are, and play them accordingly.
By the time you wait for your old bag to pump, there might've been 10 other rotations/opportunities to make money.
You Dey use your money help people no mean say the money go finish , you no Dey everly help people with your money no mean say e no go finish ….
Either say you geh money or you no get , and if your money go finish if you help people , e mean say you never geh money be that
A woman that belongs to you will cook for you , a woman that belongs to you will sleep with you, if a woman stops doing these things , she ceases to be your woman