They choose partners without properly vetting them through Christ. Women will claim to be smarter but can’t spot a deadbeat from a mile away. People don’t change to deadbeats overnight to the people responding “people change”
@ozzyetomi The question is; why would anyone want to have a child for a "deadbeat" man? or irresponsible person? Isn't it better to advice to choose the men wisely so we don't have to go through all the hassle and suffering you mentioned?
Advice : If it's not broken don't try to fix it.
I can’t date a smoker and start complaining that they smoke. It’s either I accept them for who they are or look the other way.
Men will date a fat woman and start pressuring them to lose weight. Or a baddie and start trying to turn them into a Jesus babe.
It’s giving kolomental
This dress that Ciara wore to the Oscars was even more risqué than what Keke wore. Yet look at Russell’s reaction. And these ones are even married!
May our husbands not be the weapons fashioned for our de-baddification 🙏🏾
@boombeombam@Ali_bbomaye@RevereRomance @br3ssur3 @itsKenBarbie This is a selfish point of view. Once you’re in a relationship with someone you’re a reflection of them. You can’t just do what you want anymore, and this is why most of y’all are single because you want to be acting single and expect men to tolerate that shit
@SmoovyK_ @boombeombam@jola_new@Ali_bbomaye@RevereRomance @br3ssur3 @itsKenBarbie Mate you’re never going to win. Men’s standards are always labelled as “insecure”. These women will expose their bodies and expect their partners to be okay with it, then label it insecure. But will turn around and shame you for simply liking another woman’s picture
Don’t be obtuse. The other genres aren’t as promoted and pushed like hip hop is. Your statement and his statement can exist at the same time, but yours is as a response to his makes no sense at all
Democracy is about holding power to account.
That is what Julian Assange has done.
This week, at the Council of Europe, I called for Julian’s immediate release, along with all other journalists around the world who have been imprisoned for exposing the truth.
And you can use this to limit the men who have access to you. At the end of the day we all have to ask what we really want for ourselves and whether we’re willing to let go of standards that are rooted in our own egos
Nahhh y’all just crap at selecting good partners. Most women limit their criteria to good-looking and resources, which is why the bar for men is in hell 😂
Read up on what a good husband is, a man who walks with God, and limit who has access to you based on these characteristics
Does she have a good relationship with God? What are her values and how would she instil these values in my children given the current state of society? Is she nurturing? Is she agreeable? Is she self aware? You could flip these questions either way, add in a few more…
I will never understand people that choose to see the world through “women have been oppressed lens”. Using todays context to judge past behaviours has to be the dumbest shit I can imagine
I just laugh because culture to culture all you see is only women being bent over backwards for some societal ideal; bind the feet here, cut out the cl*toris there… what *exactly* do men go through to be “closer to purity/godliness”