Very disheartening to know that some men actually think; if a woman sticks around while he continuously hurts and disrespects her, itโs a sign that she truly loves him. ๐ฌ
I have a question for Black men. When you were a boy, were you encouraged to be happy?
I literally have to teach these boys how to be happy. Their default is to appear miserable & speak negatively. If we take a picture, they go out of their way to look unhappy.
PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT
i hate how physical touch as a love language gets reduced to sex and kissing when it's more like... handholding, laying your head on their shoulder, putting your legs over their lap, tracing their palm, tucking your feet under their thighs. just touching for touching's sake.