as a queer person your first and biggest mistake you'll make is believing just because someone is gay, lesbian, trans, or intersex they'll have the same politics, values, or want liberation like you. it is always important to clarify and be certain.
We should make it embarrassing or socially isolating for gay people to be transphobic.
Transphobia shouldn't be this prevalent among cís gay men.
Not that it's not more prevalent among císhets but I expect more from gay men. And I think that's reasonable.
if you’re gay and home for christmas this year, remember, your gay gene came from one of your “straight” parents. and it’s your duty to figure out which one. probably your dad but it could be the other one too. but probably your dad