Bro was thinking of getting married…
I just gave him one piece of advice:
Keep ₹1 crore ready as a security deposit.
Why?
Because these days, a marriage can apparently end in 5 days, 10 days or a month — followed by court cases and demands for huge alimony.
And then comes the bigger problem:
The system is expected to protect a “destitute woman” — even when the marriage itself barely lasted long enough to begin.
That’s the Alimony Gopal problem.
Get married if you want.
But apparently, you better be financially prepared to get become Alimony Gopal..!
Just another excuse to make sure Husband is harassed and judiciary gets business …!
Kerala High Court just said one single “grave” act can be enough for 498A cruelty.
A series of incidents is NOT necessary.
But the same order also says something equally important:
Not every fight, disagreement or instance of ill-treatment amounts to cruelty.
Vague, general and omnibus allegations against in-laws, without any specific act, cannot be allowed to continue. Such relatives can get the case quashed.
And then comes the classic 498A pattern.
Marriage in 2007.
Case filed years later.
Gold + cruelty allegations.
In-laws get relief.
Husband?
He remains inside the system.
One line from the court.
Two completely different realities on the ground.
For the family, quashing may come.
For the husband, the litigation continues.
Difference is
China - Removed Alimony to stop wives from filing false cases and protect marriage.
Banned Businessmen from Opening Schools for profit.
INDIA - breaking families, torturing Men forcing them for suicides in false matrimonial cases.
INDIA gone blind in women Appeasement...
🇺🇸 25 years since 9/11.
Thousands of innocent lives were lost. America 🇺🇸 pursued those responsible and brought many of the perpetrators to justice.
But in India 🇮🇳, innocent men—including Army personnel, engineers, doctors & judicial officers—are losing their lives amid allegations of false matrimonial cases.
Who protects innocent men?
Who stands accountable for their suffering?
SAVE INDIAN MEN.
Justice must protect everyone—not just one gender.
Modi presents Thirukkural to Putin as timeless wisdom. 🇮🇳📖But does India follow it? Does our Judiciary uphold responsibility, dignity & family values? A nation cannot worship Thiruvalluvar in speeches while destroying the family system through its policies and institutions.#MRA
“We are independent. We don’t need men.”
Until the courtroom says: “Maintenance.”
Equality cannot be selective.
If independence is the principle, it should apply to responsibilities too.
⚖️ Equal rights. Equal responsibilities. No gender-based double standards.
🇮🇳 #GenderEquality #MensRights #Equality #IndianMen
Why are so many young men giving up?
This is not just a “men’s issue”.
It is a society issue.
When young men are dropping out of education, disconnecting from employment and dying by suicide at far higher rates, something is seriously wrong.
And the solution is NOT to keep telling men that they are victims.
Give them purpose.
Give them opportunity.
Give them responsibility.
Give them belonging.
For decades, girls have rightly been told:
You matter.
You can succeed.
Your ambitions matter.
Society needs you.
GOOD.
Now tell boys the same thing.
We need good men.
We need fathers, husbands, teachers, tradesmen, entrepreneurs, coaches, mentors, builders and community leaders.
Stop treating masculinity as something that needs to be apologised for.
Teach boys to work, build, protect, lead, serve and take responsibility.
Helping boys does NOT mean abandoning girls.
Caring about men does NOT diminish women.
Gender equality cannot mean encouragement for one sex and indifference towards the other.
Young men need to hear one simple message:
You matter.
Your future matters.
Your contribution matters.
And society needs you.