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. go look at flowers instead of bullying ppl bc you can't take accountability .

[S. @valleyspeech]

@babybeanmaltese i think (its?) so meaningful for me. but i think that it's ateez + atiny together - (build?) our dream. so i think that it's, for example, my schedule - if my solo schedule (to?) ateez schedule, or anyone's schedule, it's so different (and the video stops b4 he finished)

[S. @valleyspeech]

anyways. uhm.
i believed that atiny should talk things out to solve things, since that's what ateez do. that's all i tried to say.

i think out of all the accusations today, the one thing they were right about is that this fandom space isn't right for me. take care, y'all!

[S. @valleyspeech]

*attacked*
*takes social media break/goes to therapy*
*comes back, speaks up, accused of being someone else, attcked in a circular argument that ends up saying im childish/need therapy...but also my therapy speak isnt realistic/helpful*

...kinda getting mixed signals here😅

[S. @valleyspeech]

@pomsaeng_pomsaa @hongjoreo that isn't yours to judge when you just met me. especially to drag up the past and judge me based on what someone else thought of me, too. this isnt healthy. i spoke up because what was posted is called triangulation and i felt that was wrong. it should not have turned into attks

[S. @valleyspeech]

@pomsaeng_pomsaa @hongjoreo ...and i went and got the help. it doesnt fix everything. its a process. i didnt ask the world to bend to me, but by attking me instead of saying where the evidence is, you've shown that youre trying to distract from the issue. attking me doesnt make you right. this was mean.

[S. @valleyspeech]

@pomsaeng_pomsaa @hongjoreo "the moment became 'not yours'" - direct quote, means you were talking to me as if i was the Dm person.

yes, i am really soft. that shouldnt be an excuse for you to do whatever you want and twist things around on someone. the fact you clocked that and kept going anyways = mean.

[S. @valleyspeech]

@pomsaeng_pomsaa @hongjoreo again, talking to me as if im that fancall person, is wrong. there is evidence on my page to show who i am, and what atiny did to me over a year ago that made me silent/hide. they did a lot of harm, and no one cared. so youre wrong to do this. this is bullying. leave me alone.

[S. @valleyspeech]

@pomsaeng_pomsaa you're just being mean to be mean, now. i spoke up because the Dm sounded reasonable *according to the therapy ive been to*, and so i didnt understand why OP made a big deal out of it.

if atiny dont want to solve issues, then fine. ill stop being an atiny. this is wrong and mean

[S. @valleyspeech]

@pomsaeng_pomsaa @hongjoreo where is the evidence of the unhealthy attachment in these screenshots?

[S. @valleyspeech]

@pomsaeng_pomsaa @hongjoreo and while i havent checked the timing of the posts, it's a common pattern that when someone refuses to be reasonable, they take things public...which looks like both of them did.
so imo, they both need therapy to learn how to solve conflict without triangulating ppl

[S. @valleyspeech]

@pomsaeng_pomsaa @hongjoreo im not a burner - and i have gone to therapy/studied psyc, so thats why i posted. DMing someone is an example of healthy communication, to solve the issue, and create more connection. but i just saw that the other person went public too, so theyre both in the wrong

[S. @valleyspeech]

@pomsaeng_pomsaa @hongjoreo it's normal to be upset when an experience is claimed by the fandom as if its an inside joke.
if you shared something you made, and then the fandom made memes/copied it/acted like it was theirs, you'd feel the same. its normal to feel upset/say something to solve it...

[S. @valleyspeech]

@nitroyeo Judging yourself by calling it cringe…why would you do that to yourself and Yeosang? 🥺 he liked it enough to repeat it…and you sent it with your heart…so that’s what matters. Don’t be mean to yourself

[S. @valleyspeech]

@idrilka_ Some ppl do that. Usually that means they’re trolls/antis who wanted to believe the worst in someone.

But I just wanted to point out that it’s normal to clarify. And yes: sometimes things must be said over and over - some ppl ignore things if it isn’t repeated

[S. @valleyspeech]

@idrilka_ No, there isn’t sometimes. I don’t want to share a personal example but the only ppl being willfully obtuse are trolls, and to assume other atiny are trolls is to assume they mean h&rm/have bad intentions, which is why I spoke up. We can’t do that if we want good community

[S. @valleyspeech]

@idrilka_ (You said you can’t believe you have to explain it…but it’s normal to have to do that. It’s normal for others to see things differently. It’s normal for someone to have to share the way they think)

[S. @valleyspeech]

@idrilka_ This was not directed at you personally. I feel upset because people seem to expect everyone else to be mind readers or have the same understandings as them, and it leads to a lot of harm when that doesn’t happen 🥺 so my point was that it’s normal to have to clarify things

[S. @valleyspeech]

@PierrePoilievre @CanadianPM
There's an app called flashfood, that offers discounts for soon-to-expire foods.
Get all grocery stores on there, and create an incentive for IF they can sell or donate 100% of their stock that they order (zero food waste). It'll create jobs + food access