@iiwasinthee212 He’s not expecting Americans to care, he’s asking why Brits aren’t more outraged given the amount of hysterical uk nobs that -embarrassingly- got wrapped up in the US George Floyd hysteria and started taking the knee and all that crap when it had nothing to do with them.
@SexIndustryResA They always imagine themselves getting raped by a woman, not forcibly sodomized by a bigger man. So the fear/humiliation aspect is missing
Most settle (in their minds) but then punish her with passive aggression and withholding behaviours. This is why anxious/avoidant behaviours tend to fall on gender lines- women go all in on who they ‘settle’ for. Men tend to resent their average partner as a reflection of their own averageness.
@rbowr17@GGGoneMad Mother son enmeshment is not rare at all. Huge cause of problems in marriages. Anglo men with enmeshed mothers tend to be more passive in the relationship but fully permissive of it though
@drugproblem why would any parent choose for their child to freeze rather than accept her money and shelter? Perhaps because she was observably bananas rather than merely intoxicated
@LisaBritton Men get socially rewarded for acting dutiful. Male prosocial behaviours are held in high regard. Women are expected to behave dutifully but when they do they are made invisible, not rewarded.