Friends, Gilmore girls, the vampire diaries, Smallville, Veronica mars, pretty little liars, teen wolf, sex and the city and one tree hill all belong to the fall season
başka kadınları arzulamayan bir adamla evleneceğim. öfkeli olduğunda ondan korkmadığım bir adamla evleneceğim. beni yüksek sesle seven bir adamla evleneceğim. düşünceli ve ilgili bir adamla evleneceğim. sadık ve değerli ilkeleri olan bir adamla evleneceğim..ya da evlenmeyeceğim
Keep your problems smaller than your life. A flat tire is a flat tire. A bad meeting is a bad meeting. A canceled flight is just an extra two hours. These things become catastrophes when you let them. But they stay manageable when you remember the depth of your real life- the people you love, the work you care about, the beautiful years still ahead. Zoom out. Fit your reaction to the size of the problem.
Being disliked by people with ugly spirits is protection. I have no desire to be connected to people who operate from jealousy, wickedness, negativity, entitlement, manipulation, or a lack of integrity. Life is spiritual. Not every heart is safe to stay connected to.✍️
the best witchcraft i've learned is to say everything you're doing before you do it. even walking into a room. say "i'm walking into the kitchen and getting a drink," etc. after a couple of weeks, your mind has gotten used to doing what you say will happen. now your mind believes your words more and will more naturally work to make them happen.
Today I learned a term called “Premature Competence”: When a child is forced to become self sufficient too early because no adult is reliably meeting their needs, they develop a false maturity. In adulthood, they appear highly capable but struggle to ask for help because they never learned it was safe to need anyone.
My therapist dropped a gem: you can't spend your life avoiding heartbreak or bad things from happening. You have to condition yourself to have appropriate emotional responses but learn to keep moving forward.
I think the purest form of love is just wanting someone to experience life with you. "Taste this. Look at that. Hear this song." Over and over. Until you can't imagine experiencing life without them.