Please do not marry anyone that is too religious and always interested in spiritual revelations.
They see everyone and everything as spiritual attack and they have imaginary enemies.
They will turn you against your family, friends and potential helpers.
If you know you carry OS, Patronise sex workers or have sex with call girls.
Make sure you have this!!! Get consent
With few drops of blood you can quickly test for Hepatitis B, HIV, Hepatitis C, Syphilis
Practice safe sex
People don’t knowingly marry their enemy. At some point, especially in the beginning, that person felt like the best thing that ever happened to them. We just ignore the red flags in the beginning with hopes that things would get better.