a woman working 40+ hrs a week, paying for her own hair, nails, rent, car, food, gas, handling everything by herself, is not going to be the soft, feminine woman you expect her to be. and no, she can't bring you peace when she's in survival mode.
It’s not about whether a man sends $20 or $5,000 for lunch it’s the fact that he thought of you and sent something without being asked. Same way you wake up and your man already filled your tank. That’s a love language. Effort. Consideration. Intentionality.
Going through a phase right now, i think i've finally come in terms with letting a lot of stuff go including feelings, people, fears, just everything. it's time for new beginnings, new chapters that brings happiness, love and endless memories. it's time to move on with life.
Life is so unserious. One minute you’re praying for certain things, years later you have them and don’t even notice. You just keep wishing for more. Desire never really stops �� that’s why gratitude matters.