A common reason some men can’t accomplish their goals or become successful is because they’re moving at their GF/wife, or their friends pace instead of their own. They Won’t go make the most money they can ever make or go to gym because their GF/wife or friends won’t.
You set the tone for others… don’t let them set it for you. No one wants to follow or listen a follower or person who can’t motivate themselves.
Conclusion: self motivation = success.