My brother just finding out that it is customary to give a token to the person who brings gift(s) or good news just shows how the gen z is in a way, uncultured.
I dunno how to explain it… but I want to rant here
You hold yourself to the highest standards and discipline navigating through life… and then you meet a person who is morally bankrupt in some of the most distasteful ways…
Beware of al-tajawwuz in the first ten days of Dhul-Hijjah !!!
Do you know what al-tajawwuz is, why the Prophet ﷺ warned against it, and how it can nullify all the good deeds of the first ten days of Dhul-Hijjah?
How you honour women speaks volumes about your character. Repaying trust with betrayal is among the lowest displays of humanity. It reveals a lack of integrity, empathy, and any sense of responsibility, not just toward her, but across every aspect of your life.
Talakan Najeriya kullun burinsa yaji wacece take gidan miji kuma wacece ta fito. Ga talauci, ga zafin rana, ga Tinubu ga kuma tara dumbin zunuban gulma. Yaran masu kudi suna sheke ayarsu kuna kwashe musu zunubi.
The closer to the truth you are, the clearer everything becomes. The genius is in being obvious, it’s authenticity. If a person is not real it’s so easy to tell, souls communicate, bazai ma kama kanka bane. You must live truthfully to see truly, the hack is “gaya ma kai gaskiya”.
If your man cheats on you with another woman, your battle is between you & your man. You have no business with the woman he cheated with. Your man is weak enough to entertain another woman, she didn’t r@p€ him, he is a grown adult who woke up and decided you are not enough for him.
All of a sudden, we’re living in a time where people are bent on normalising cheating in marriage. The social media is even cheering it on.
But marriage is neither a trend nor a culture to some of us, it’s worship. I will never ever normalise cheating, whether as a victim or as the culprit. Wrong is wrong!
And I’ll someday tell my boys & my girl. It’s the highest form of irresponsibility with absolutely zero class.