Men..
STOP HAVING SEX WITH TOO DRUNK WOMEN!!!
My brother's friend is in a holding cell because he slept with a girl last night and she doesn't remember consenting and she feels she was raped.
Anizwa nina🤦🏿♀️
I always tell men, when a woman genuinely likes you, you’ll know. It’s usually very obvious. there’s no need for all these “standards”, when she really wants you, she’ll naturally go out of her way for you.
He spent 22 years in pr!son, got surprised by his family after he got out, then later cut his long dreads, got a job, got his first car, even bought himself house. He turned his own life around completely…..A beautiful video 🥹❤️
Man to man
▪︎ Wake up early whether you like it or not. Sleep is a luxury you earn.
▪︎ Cut porn. It's frying your discipline and making you soft.
▪︎ Lift heavy weights 4 to 6 days a week. Track numbers. If they're not going up, you're lying.
▪︎ Eat boring food. Same meals. Protein first. Pleasure later.
▪︎ Stop explaining yourself. Explanations are for people above you.
▪︎ Learn one high-income skill and go all in. No backup plans. Backups make cowards.
▪︎ Kill useless friendships. If they don't push money, discipline or growth, they're dead weight.
▪︎ Get comfortable being alone. Loneliness is training, not a problem.
▪︎ Read contracts, finance, power, psychology. Fiction won't save you.
▪︎ Build an emergency fund. No one rescues grown men.
▪︎ Stop chasing women. Build a life that attracts them accidentally.
▪︎ Control your temper. Emotional men get manipulated.
▪︎ Dress clean and simple. No logos. No noise. Let silence flex.
▪︎ Learn to say no without guilt.
▪︎ Track your time like money. Wasted hours are stolen years.
▪︎ Fix your posture. Weak body language bleeds into weak decisions.
▪︎ Quit alcohol if you can't control it. If it controls you, it owns you.
▪︎ Learn how to fight or learn how to run fast. Ideally both.
▪︎ Pay your debts aggressively. Owing money kills respect.
▪︎ Keep your mouth shut about plans. Execute first.
▪︎ Accept that no one cares about your struggles. Act accordingly.
▪︎ Build something that pays you while you sleep. If not, you're replaceable.
▪︎ Call your parents. One day you won't be able to.
▪︎ Stop waiting for motivation. Operate on schedule.
▪︎ Become physically dangerous but mentally calm.
▪︎ Respect yourself so hard the world has no choice but to adjust.
That's it. No inspiration. Just work.
This is why I admire my stubbornness, although it seems far fetched, I refuse to succumb.
“If you wanna be successful and wealthy, you have to be delusional”
You will think some of these posts are rage bait until you realise that this is genuinely how many women reason. An adult woman who can’t take care of herself doesn’t see anything wrong with it. She doesn’t even blame her parents and siblings for failing to take care of her, but somehow, it is her boyfriend she would rather pour her frustrations on.
Any adult woman who can’t take care of herself and her basic needs doesn’t need a relationship; she needs a job.
You went to school, your boyfriend went to school too, and both of you are working, but he is the one who should take care of you. What, then, is the essence of your education? Feminism fought for women’s right to education, and at the end of the day, some women still want to make themselves a full liability. It’s crazy.
Do women ever sit down and tell themselves, “I’m so broke. I really need to hustle to afford the lifestyle I desire”? No. Many of them would rather say, “God, I need one rich bobo, an intentional man. Just one!” A woman will rarely see herself as being broke. She would rather convince herself that she is hardworking and simply deserves a man who can provide the lifestyle she wants.
That’s why we have the “independent woman, I pay my own bills” gang. Parents, teach your daughters that they can make money too, and that financial stability is not a gender thing.
I know the pain I fell out with this other boy of mine a couple of years ago. Solid dude man, we had so much fun together. We would drink sifebe kamnandi with his car.
One day the tensions rose, words were said. Bricks were thrown and that was the last time I saw him. He messaged me a few months ago on LinkedIn. I almost broke down. We had a good thing going but pride got in the way of things.
I can’t handle anymore fallouts, I’m even afraid to make new friends man. I hope he’s doing well.
Women don’t cheat better it’s just that side niggas are not going out their way to tell the next man what’s going on. Women are terrible liars and you can easily tell when their patterns change, sometimes niggas don’t be having the time and energy to be investigating the shit.