I feel like habibti and MOH are being overshadowed by iceman’s success … what Drake did in SLAP THE CITY is just too immense, creative, beautiful emotive Rap.
I just heard this girl say, "If men didn't have to wipe their ass, toilet paper would not be free in public spaces. bleeding is also a natural bodily function, but because men don't do it, it's not treated as universal."
This girl on threads said you think a man that’s 30+ with no kids is a gem til you realize how many women aborted his babies to stay away from him and the men are clutching their pearls 😂😂😂
You have to remember, these the same niggas who never saw their father get their mother so much as a card or flowers. But they cant call their mother the bottom of the barrel woman they think she is so they turn that energy into red pill shit towards other (black) women
Ciara gets cheated on by Future, she’s blamed. Along comes Russell Wilson, a man who loves and respects her now he’s a “simp” and she’s “undeserving.” Cardi B gets cheated on for years by Offset, it’s jokes. She moves on, now she’s the problem. Megan Thee Stallion gets hurt repeatedly, she’s mocked. The men are celebrated. Now that Klay has hurt her, men somehow love him after he was just every goofy in the book when he “appeared” to be loving her properly. The list seriously goes on. A man cheats, people excuse it. A woman stays, she’s weak. A woman leaves, she’s the problem. A woman finds better, now she’s “undeserving” and the Man treating her right is a clown, goofy, simp. When Men speak up for women they’re labeled “pick me’s” or worse
This says to me that a lot of men are comfortable when a woman is disrespected but bothered when she’s valued. Why Tho? Who hurt y’all?
Because you don’t have to be in a relationship at all, let alone a monogamous one. If you have any principles then you’ll be honest with your partners and look for people who are also polyamorous. Cheating happens because you’re deceptive and selfish.
The notion that a man will treat the woman he “truly wants” right has done so much damage to young women’s discernment. It’s never been about this dream girl. It’s always been about men’s lack of character. You understand this, the less you internalize how they view/treat you.
“She can’t keep a man”. It’s so easy to keep a man ya’ll. I promise. All you gotta do is allow them to lie and cheat in peace, don’t challenge their patterns, and don’t address anything they do that hurts you. You’ll keep them for years and years until they find their next toy.
I don't internalize men's actions and I don't think any woman should. They are often at war with themselves, it most likely has nothing to do with you, so just make sure you stay far away from it all when you catch a whiff of it.