A man's desire to become a father is always paid for by a woman with her body, her health, her career, and her freedom.
But when a woman expects a comfortable life, she is somehow shamed for wanting too much.
If you plan to be together a LONG TIME, get more comfortable saying these ↓
1. "My tone was bad just now. Sorry. You didn't deserve that. Let me try again."
having a man who is dominant but soft when it comes to u is TOP TIER. Like he's masculine but literally worships the ground u walk on. He gets things done without asking, reassures u randomly, clingy & obsessed with u, talks to u in a gentle tone & brings out ur softest version
This is free advice from an expensive psychologist. If you’re an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Don’t make everything a matter of life and death.
girl to girl: it's okay to be alone. it's okay to have a dry phone. it's okay to be celibate. it's okay to be selfish. it's okay to have high standards. your peace, your pace, your rules
The Sopranos
Prison Break
24
Heroes
Breaking Bad
Game of Thrones
The last kingdom
Blacklist
Oz
Psych
Mad Men
Better Call Saul
Peaky blinders
The Wire
House
How I Met Your Mother
Fringe
Vikings
Person of Interest
The 100
Homeland
House of cards
Dexter
The Americans
Suits
Friends
The Office
Supernatural
The Shield
Not only do I love a man that i can call for everything, I love a man that wants to be called for everything. Never annoyed, always ready to solve a problem. A real man.
My man said something to me that really stuck.
He told me, “I’m not actually here to control you. I’m not your dad, I’m your partner. You’re free to make your own choices. Just understand that every choice has consequences. If you choose something that damages what we’ve built, that’s on you.”
He said, “I’ll always tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s what healthy communication looks like. But if you keep stepping over the line after I’ve shown you where it is, then you were never really protecting us to begin with.”
And honestly, that’s what accountability in a relationship sounds like.
Being in a healthy relationship really taught me there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. When you truly love someone you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings – you adjust, grow & heal together.