Love isn't enough for me anymore. I need you to respect me, I need you to support me. I need you to reassure me, I need to know you won't give up on me. I need you to value me. I need you to be gentle with me. I need to feel safe with you so I can be the softest version of me♡♡
The real flex is keeping a good heart when life keeps giving you reasons not to. When you been lied to, used, switched up on, and counted out... but you still show love. You still got loyalty in you. Still show up for people, even when nobody showed up for you. That's rare.
the WORST feeling for a woman is when she tries to have a conversation with a man about his BEHAVIOR that hurts her every day, but instead of listening, he gets ANGRY and turns the situation around on her
unhealed trauma makes you hold onto people longer than you should, and tolerate a lot of sh*t you don't deserve because you don't want to feel alone. healing makes you realize some people don't deserve to be in your life, no matter how much you love them.