Full grown adults who can’t vacation, take a gap year, have hobbies, play an instrument, speak multiple languages, swim, cycle, skate, or backpack. Just a lifetime of hustling and trying to escape survival mode. These are subtle poverty metrics no one really talks about.
Periods are so wicked, every month I’m shocked at the wickedness. It’s bad enough that we bleed why do we have to go through many symptoms too that also add on as you age. The pain, the stress, the fatigue & more, this is exhausting! + The fact that are pre period symptoms too
It’s how I now search people with my full chest
Me: where does this person work now sef
Me: *opens LinkedIn and types their name.
Ehn I searched you. Will you beat me?
You can’t do life alone, this isn’t even about having a partner. The value of support from genuine people cannot be overemphasized. Have good friends, kind friends, the ones that won’t be counting scores but will love you genuinely. Pray for good people in your life!
You people are too funny on this app. 😂
“1.5m is not enough for a wedding.”
“500k is too small for a photographer.”
“Which makeup artiste will collect 120k for wedding makeup?”
Is it that you people cannot imagine a normal wedding that’s not Instagram-inspired again? Or that there’s always a vendor that fits the standard the person can afford?
Like when you think of weddings, you think of social media…forgetting that couples living below minimum wage get married every day?
Like bruh, before you say “it’s not enough for a wedding”, just say “it’s not enough for the kind of wedding in my head” or “500k is not enough for the photographerI chose in my head.”
Whew. People get married with less.
Weddings are expensive, very expensive. But affordable weddings are very possible—and most importantly, they’re done every week.
Document your life. Your fits, your friends, your family, your food, your face, your body, your trips, your outings, your reads, your lows, your highs, your midpoints & so & so & so. You don’t need to share but document, do it for yourself too first & foremost, not anyone else