Looking back at this year made me realize I picked the perfect partner. Life hasn’t been easy but he ALWAYS managed to make me feel protected and taken care off 🫶🏻
a therapist said that sometimes being a loner is a trauma response. you’re so use to people you love not showing up for you or walking away or you may have grown up in a toxic environment. that the only one you could depend on was YOU! so you naturally feel safe when you’re alone
If you’re a homebody, most probably it means that your nervous system needs healing. You crave peace, relaxation, isolation, comfort, your tea, books & baths for a reason. You’re not an introvert, you’re just (a woman) whose nervous system has been through a lot
CAN’T WAIT TO MOVE INTO A SIMPLE APARTMENT WITH THE LOVE OF MY LIFE AND FALL ASLEEP AND WAKE UP NEXT TO THEM AND COOK DINNER WITH THEM AND HAVE RANDOM MIDNIGHT TRIPS AND STAY UP LATE PLAYING VIDEO GAMES OR WATCHING MOVIES AND BEING ABLE TO SHARE EVERY MOMENT OF MY LIFE WITH THEM.
when they get upset at you for explaining your feelings and suddenly you are 13 again sobbing into your hands over the fact that you were just trying to communicate and instead were made into a problem for having emotions