Peace is saying no. Not extending yourself beyond your capacity. Not taking on projects so you can preserve your energy. It is not answering questions to soothe another's curiosity about your life. Asserting your boundaries consistently develops your peace. #WorkinProgress
21 Days of Gratitude. Each day start the morning or end your day writing about something your grateful about. Today in my Whodini voice, " Friends, how many of us have them?" I do. They have a playas back. Choose your circle wisely. Journal available on Amazon. #friends
@WonderKing82 It sounds like someone is triggered. We tell the stories that need to be told with respect and dignity. Secret keeping is part of the problem with child abuse.
How to respond to gaslighting: 1. Feel your feelings. When you deny your feelings it's easier to deny what's happening. 2. Boundaries. Say no. Let people go who are stealing your joy. 3. Don't compromise your values and beliefs about yourself. 4. Address the behavior.
What does gaslighting sound like? I was joking. You're too sensitive. Oh, that didn't happen. You're tripping. It's your fault. You should be grateful. You did that wrong. They turn around and do the exact same thing.
Gaslighting is manipulation and emotional abuse. A person or persons who work to make you question and doubt what you smell, think, see, feel and hear. They do this to get you to do the things that benefit them. #redflags#emotionalabuse#letthemgo#trustyourvoice
Don't dilute your spirit to make yourself palatable for others. Family, colleague, romantic partners. Be your full strength self or nothing at all. Conforming or making yourself small wounds and quiets your voice. Open up space for doubt. Sacrificing your needs for others needs.
It's a trip how the truth, your authenticity, your needs is too much for someone. If they can't handle or accept it and lean in to support maybe they're not for you?
Tomorrow's not guaranteed. Start letting go of what doesn't serve you today. Rest today. Say no today. Call up the homie and tell them you love them today. #love#mentalhealth#MentalHealthMatters#tellafriend