Keep living. Keep healing. Keep pouring into yourself. Not only for yourself, but also for the people who need the version of you that you’re growing into. You are needed. You are necessary. You’ve got this.
I'm not toxic. I'm reactive. There's a person somewhere calling me difficult, and they're leaving out the part where they pushed every boundary I set, ignored every signal I gave, and then acted shocked when I finally stopped being gentle about it.
If I ever stop talking to you & remove you from my life, I hope you understand how hard that was for me. I have a bad habit of holding onto the little bit of good in people, no matter how bad they clearly are for me. So if I don't fwu anymore it's bc you pushed me past my limits
@_iamhershayyy That's why the quote " You will never meet the same person twice, not even in the same person." exists.
There's pain, abuse, rage & betrayal that changes a person to a point where there is no coming back from.
Tragic? Yes. Salvageable? Difficult but Yes.
@MimiNgwane 💯! One thing about narcissists - everyone gets a turn in seeing who they truly are. No matter how long it takes. The minute you disagree, question too much or clock them, the mask will eventually fall. Really glad MaK has someone in her corner.
Don’t let anybody shame you for things you did out of love.
Especially when they were done with good intentions and not for ulterior motives or transactional purposes.
As I have always said, If you have a problem with menstrual blood, then just date a man. Women menstruate it is not news. And sometimes, mistakes will happen.
If you think this little blood messes up your car, then wait till she has to push a baby out in the car while you are stuck in jam rushing to the hospital, you will see real blood.
And if she had a heavy meal before labor begins, Number 2 will actually come out before the baby. So this is nothing lads.
As long as you are straight and love women, then terms and conditions apply.😉 abakyala bazira.