Adult friendships require a lot of understanding. People go to work. People are busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Do not mistake less communication for less love.
one thing i hate at this grown age is somebody who acts like cause & effect does not exist ! yes your actions caused this outcome ! so why are you acting surprised & playing victim ?
tolerating always turns into resentment. at first, you call it patience, then love. but what it really is, is self abandonment. every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. eventually, the bill comes due.
Situationships can teach you one of the hardest lessons in dating: someone can genuinely enjoy your company and still not be willing to build a future with you. Those two things can exist at the same time