He thought they were paying off debt together... until he discovered his pregnant wife had secretly added another $50,000.
Caller: โMy wife and I have been working to pay off $57,000 in debt.
โThen I found out she'd secretly racked up another $50,000 in credit card debt without telling me.
โI was terrified.โ
โShe'd been hiding it for a long time, and it got worse after she became pregnant.โ
โWhen I confronted her, she broke down crying and admitted everything.โ
โI told her I could forgive her, and I'd work as much overtime as I could to help us get through it.โ
โI only found out because someone reviewing our credit report while discussing a mortgage refinance told me we had $50,000 more debt than I thought.โ
Dave Ramsey : After doing this for more than 30 years, I've learned that the money isn't the biggest issue.
โThis is financial infidelity. It's a deep breach of trust, and for many people, it hurts the same way an affair does.โ
โYour wife didn't just overspend. She hid it from you for an extended period of time.โ
โThis isn't, "I bought something and forgot to tell you."
โThis is something completely different.
He thought they were paying off debt together... until he discovered his pregnant wife had secretly added another $50,000.
Caller: โMy wife and I have been working to pay off $57,000 in debt.
โThen I found out she'd secretly racked up another $50,000 in credit card debt without telling me.
โI was terrified.โ
โShe'd been hiding it for a long time, and it got worse after she became pregnant.โ
โWhen I confronted her, she broke down crying and admitted everything.โ
โI told her I could forgive her, and I'd work as much overtime as I could to help us get through it.โ
โI only found out because someone reviewing our credit report while discussing a mortgage refinance told me we had $50,000 more debt than I thought.โ
Dave Ramsey : After doing this for more than 30 years, I've learned that the money isn't the biggest issue.
โThis is financial infidelity. It's a deep breach of trust, and for many people, it hurts the same way an affair does.โ
โYour wife didn't just overspend. She hid it from you for an extended period of time.โ
โThis isn't, "I bought something and forgot to tell you."
โThis is something completely different.
@lilsandray@whitey_xyz You can be fasting and when you decide to break your fast , you still eat more calories , then you are definitely doing it wrong