True, le move’a masepa and that’s why we lack community as a generation.
You owe your neighbour decency, your friends loyalty, your elders respect, and strangers kindness.
Keep your word. Pick up the litter. Respect shared spaces. Be easy to work with. Give credit. Show up.
Just be a lekker oke man, what the fuck?
sounds like two people responsible and self-aware enough to know what they’re equipped to handle, and opted to avoid bringing a child into the world who would suffer and they would resent. 🤷🏾♀️