You cannot have a man and be asking for help in a black family. They immediately want to know what the fuck is the man you are fucking on doing to help you.
I don’t tell nobody what’s going on with me anymore. Ever since I learned people will listen to your problems, then turn around and talk about you or clown you behind your back, I stopped sharing my business. Idc how close you think you are to somebody KEEP certain things to yourself. Getting through sht on your own is hard at first, but the peace that comes with nobody knowing your business? 10/10.
"A pastor said something today that really hit me: you have to learn how to be at peace in the place you're in, even when it's not the place you prayed for, until God leads you into the next one."
A girl on TikToķ once said; “This year God grabbed my hand, told me to trust Him, & we just took off running.” & someone commented; “Some days He’s dragging’ me, other days He’s carrying me, but we locked in.” & to be honest… that’s exactly how I feel too. IMMENSELY🙏🏻.
I remember when Brandi took that money out her son bank account to open a store. mind you, she stole her son money, didn’t even own 100% of the store, didn’t tell her husband about it, & the store didn’t last.. man love & hip hop use to be good asf
Isolation really does heal you & strengthen your discernment ! Sometimes you really do need to remove yourself, get quiet & just focus on YOU !
I done helped a ngga through some of his darkest days just for him to turn around and become the reason for mine. That’s why I don’t brag about being no ride or die anymore. Baby, sometimes you need to GET OUT THE CAR.
Jhené Aiko made an album for the girls who trusted someone they shouldn’t have and has to move on with life with grace, knowing that they’re building discernment for the next person who they’ll give their love to. and sometimes that journey is not pretty, but it’s necessary.
When Tyler Perry said everybody’s struggling, everybody going through something, it’s not about how bad it is but it’s how you move through it ‼️ whew I felt that 🥹😮💨