People donβt realize that you can actually push someone so far that they no longer want anything to do with you anymore . This applies to friendships, relationships, or even family.
Sometimes, people assume that because you love them, whether as a friend, partner, or family member you will continue to tolerate anything, disrespect, neglect, hurtful actions , lack of effort, or emotional stress.
Everyone has limits, and there is only so much one person can take before they choose peace over connection.
Even the most patient, kind-hearted person can reach their breaking point.
When someone continuously feels unappreciated, misunderstood, or mistreated, they can reach a place where they emotionally disconnect. And once someone emotionally disconnects, it is very hard to repair that relationship.
btw in your 20's and 30βs youβll start rediscovering the niche interests and hobbies you had as a kid. itβs very important you revisit them. your younger self was actually on to something.
Youβre not as important as you think. The world moves on very quickly. Life goes on no matter what. And people donβt care as much as you think they do.
I CANNOT FUCK w/ people who, when they're mad they say extremely hurtful things but when they calm down they want to backtrack and say they didn't mean it. YES, you did. Stand on it.