from myself
I think it was a good decision sha
Out of sight became out of mind and I focused on competing against the previous version of myself and not others
I remember this phase cos I’m experiencing it again
I’ll rather recoil that get jealous of people’s beautiful stories
There was a time I cut someone out of my life (that is reduced communication, restricted my access to their status updates and social media) cos I was beginning to feel bad for their success.
I was scared for myself fr
Thought “I must be a witch”
So… I recoiled, protected them
@Wizarab10@2nd_of_August I know someone who this happened to.
He asked to see the guy, got his address and then arrested him
Locked him up for a few days.
And still went ahead with his relationship with the babe
Alas it was something I didn’t want to do.
I didn’t hesitate. I said no. With good reason.
One thing I’ve come to teach myself is how to listen to my gut and not be greedy
Someone invited me to join an “investment” because they felt like I will be interested. They packaged it so much that it was almost believable.
I knew I didn’t want to do it because the maths was just not mathing but I decided to listen with so much intentionality.