my deepest darkest kinkiest most fucked up fantasy is that there’s a hospital with all the doctors I need in one spot and they all communicate and are truly invested in me and work together and figure it out and I get better. and its $35
Que thread incrível, gostaria de adicionar que além de "fragilizar" a imagem das femmes e colocar expectativas muito altas em butches, acaba-se apagando algo muito importante sobre a comunidade que é o papel histórico das femmes de protegerem seus butches
The
growing up afab having a preference for women ➜ coming out as transmasc and still fiercely supporting the lesbian community despite leaving it (ur still sapphic in some ways) ➜ coming out as a butch lesbian
pipeline is REAL
reminder that historically femmes have been defined by using their ability to move through the world less detected to protect butches. it’s not just a fem lesbian. a femme is a very specific identity and it’s so integral to our community, please don’t forget that.
Realizing I’m into BDSM actually took so much pressure off the whole butchfemme thing for me bc yes I’m attracted to masculine of center women, but I’m looking for more than that in a relationship and THATS OKAY! I love being a sub femme now :)
♥︎: #femme#butchfemme
Como uma contracultura erótica dos anos 20 ajudou na transformação da performance de femmes lésbicas e no reconhecimento de sua identidade
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taking care of ur butch spoiling them making them feel loved and safe & taking interests in their hobbies being protective over them & making sure they know you’re always in their corner while having this all enthusiastically reciprocated… isn’t this the dream life😣🌷