You kno what's super attractive to me? When a man CALMLY talks to you in times of disagreement. EVEN inspite of their frustration in the moment. Not being a hot dead and talking crazy, no character assassination.... just calmly & rationally responding with patience & diligence.
I’ve started appreciating days where nothing dramatic happens. no bad news, no stressful interactions, no overwhelming thoughts. just a normal, quiet day where everything is calm. those are the days that actually feel like rest.
Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.
You disrespect yourself every time you let something slide that doesn’t sit right with you so I’ve buckled down on my boundaries as a form of self love. My time is valuable, my feelings are valid. those who love me will respect it. I desire nothing more and will take nothing less
Upgrading my appearance.
Becoming hard to reach.
Working 24/7.
Choosing happiness.
Cutting off toxic people.
No roaster.
Enjoying my alone time.
Forgiving myself.