Do not let people gaslight you into thinking that duality does not exist. You can be grateful and annoyed. You can want more and be grateful for what you have. You can be angry and frustrated and still be grateful. A lot of religious and spiritual gaslighting out here.
Most white people are so desperate to push this reverse racism narrative because they want to be seen as victims. But racism isn't just about hurt feelings…it's about systems, power, and history.
The reality is that white people have never faced centuries of oppression, discrimination, and exclusion in this country because of their race. Being uncomfortable when racism is called out isn’t the same as experiencing racism.
If someone tells you that they don’t want you to do a specific thing sexually and you decide to do it anyway, it’s a violation of consent. Legal ramifications aside (we know conviction rates and thresholds), morally, why would you do that? What does that make you?????????