That thread of married men sharing their marriage experiences. 🥴
80% of the replies are about financial struggles, & theyre blaming their wives for "bringing bad luck" instead of seeing that Nigeria's economy is the primary reason.
One person even said his wife is a corper. You people clearly don’t knw the value of a two-income household.
You'll intentionally target young girls with no jobs while you're earning peanuts yourself, then turn around & complain about financial hardship after marriage.
You want a patriarchal lifestyle on a ₦150,000 salary? Better marry your agemate & build together by pooling resources.
This is all the evidence you need to know that this government is not interested in stopping terrorism because if they can track this guy down, they can also track down terrorists who are actively posting on TikTok.
I find it really weird that all my life in Church i was told that when you pray you also take actions
If you pray to pass you also have to read
If you pray to get rich you also have to work
But somehow we are told to pray for Nigeria and not hold our leaders accountable
Everybody is rightfully annoyed w this convo but I think it’s funny how nobody wants to acknowledge that this literally stems from men weaponizing cooking as a form of subservience “get in the kitchen” was one of the first common idioms of misogyny I experienced as a child😭
This one is a very unique problem ohhh!
Your sister died in FEBRUARY and by June you’re kissing and are in love with her husband????
If you won’t listen to your fellow women, at least listen to Ayanfe and stop this please 😭
Our language around governance is so interesting in Nigeria. We talk like when someone wins an election, the money and resources of the state become their personal largesse and any progress or work that happens is because they’re kind enough to “dash” us.
This sounds really cruel until you realize a war has been happening in the north east for about two decades now and we have a refugee crisis right now in this country. I can bet you’ve partied in these two decades.
I'm having the most peaceful crash out of my life right now... like I'm going insane, but also just chilling and vibing. I'm stressed about a bunch of stuff, but at the same time I'm not. Idk how to explain it.
Another day to remember that my mum and dad separated, mum left with us and my dad removed our names as dependents from his health insurance scheme. My mum not knowing, took my convulsing sister with her last money to the hospital only to receive the rude shock of us not being beneficiaries.
She trekked home with a convulsing child on her back, funny my sister woke up and is still alive today.
A woman without her own money will suffer. PS: dont talk to me about marrying a kind man
If truly you’re a girl behind this account, I want better for you.
These ideas you have about what you need to do as a girl to get a husband are because you’re poor and hopeless.
I want a Nigeria where you can just live your life in comfort without strategising how to get a man