Having an autistic child & not getting them the help, ABA therapy, and services they need is a form of child neglect & I wish more parents realize & take it serious. It’s nothing to be ashamed of, get your child help it will elevate stress on you as a parent.
Some women think men should always be the providers, but I feel the same way about both genders. As an adult, you should be able to take care of yourself anything a partner gives you should be a bonus. This isn’t the 1950s.