I like my bob, but I def. didnโt want my closure to be all choppy and shit. Now I gotta throw it away after this style because of her mistake. A waste of fucking money and a waste of my time.
When a woman asks "what are we?" / "where is the relationship going?", it's rarely because she's needy. A lot of the time it's down to caution.
Asking someone to join you on a journey without confirming the intended destination, is basically requesting that they take a risk.