DON'T PLAY WITH GOD. He can flip your whole story overnight. One moment you're counted out, the next you're standing in rooms you never qualified for. Destiny isn't fragile when God is involved. It's one instruction away from changing everything. -( realist thing I ever read)
we're older now, no one wants to be in a boring ass relationship with no real dates, no elevation, no traveling, no chemistry, no nothing. Just shacking up, having sex, and being toxic. Go do sum 😩
Before you pass away, Remove your kids as direct beneficiaries of your assets. Then place all your assets in a revocable trust and name your kids as the beneficiary of the trust. This allows them to by pass the lengthy probate process and gain immediate access to the assets.
Being 30 is so funny tbh because it’s so obvious to me now that my frontal lobe is fully developed. I used to be such an incredible little dumb ass. My only regret of my 20’s was how much I centered my life around relationships and not myself.
Erykah Badu told us to pack light and most thought it was about luggage.
She meant: stop carrying things that aren't yours.
His shame. His insecurities. His inability to see your value. None of that is yours to carry. Pack light.
You have places to go.
I want people to notice how a lot of these are done naturally by children. Especially the arm swings (as is done when skipping, and some others are done when stimming). Turns out longevity is connected to channeling the mannerisms of the inner child. How cool!
Mouth swabs are the only fair marijuana test to me.
Just like a breathalyzer can tell someone’s alcohol level RIGHT NOW. If we’re testing people it should be on a RIGHT NOW basis bc why am i criminalized bc i got high this past weekend, when i was off work & had no responsibilities. People get drunk every weekend & they get to keep their jobs.
I think we’d all be happier if we borrowed a few habits from our grandmothers. Read more. Bake more. Rest more. Worry less. Slower days, a softer life.
If you have Complex PTSD (CPTSD), your amygdala is hypersensitive due to past trauma. This means small triggers (a certain tone of voice, a dismissive look, or a minor mistake) can send you into a panicked, overwhelming state.
Women get prettier when our nervous system is regulated & we're not living in chronic stress. Longer hair, shinier hair, softer + glowier skin, no bloating, no breakouts, no mood swings. We’re our best version when we rest more, slow down, spend more time in the sun, eat warm foods, dance, frolic... Biologically we're wired to be whimsical
My parents were in the middle of an argument when my dad proudly said, “I bought you a house and a car,” and my mum casually responded, “That’s standard procedure.” LMAOOO
my favorite part of healing is when i stop lying to myself and start accepting people for who they were to me instead of whatever potential i projected onto them