Bc being a single mom is hard af, a two parent household is needed, parenting was never meant to be a one person job. Co parenting can work but itโll never compare to a healthy two parent household
Speaking from experience, donโt let a nigga baby mama you. And I donโt mean be an abortion queen, I mean donโt even put yourself in position to potentially have a baby by a nigga that hasnโt given you his last name.
The moment you start bringing other people into your marriage bed, you defeat the purpose of what God created marriage to be. Marriage was designed to be sacred, holy, and between husband and wife. The world keeps normalizing threesomes, open relationships, and sexual confusion, but God warned us not to defile the marriage bed.
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
โMarriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.โ
What starts as โspicing things upโ often opens the door to jealousy, lust, confusion, soul ties, division, and spiritual darkness. Stop inviting outside people and demonic chaos into something God intended to be protected and sacred.
Mark 10:9 KJV
โWhat therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.โ
A marriage built on lust, temptation, and constant boundary crossing will not stand strong spiritually. Protect your covenant.
Nobody talks about how Godโs love is not transactional. It doesnโt increase when youโre faithful and decrease when youโre not. It doesnโt reward your good seasons and withhold in your bad ones. Itโs the same yesterday, today, and forever. ๐ฅน๐ฅน๐ฅน๐ฅน๐ฅน๐ฅน๐ฅน
I keep it cool bc I donโt care to argue, especially bc niggas gone do what they wanna do at the end of it all but at some point something has to give