I recommend losing all patience w/ anyone who suggests that setting boundaries w/ people you are deeply attached to or enmeshed w/ is easy. It's complicated & stressful, especially if you don't have the necessary safety or autonomy to walk away if your boundary isn't respected.
Friendly reminder - influencers are not our friends.
It tends to get confusing because after following them for some time we know everything about them and what they do but forget that its not mutual and they do not in fact, actually care about us. This reminder is for myself.