let Nigerian Youths in their desperation go out and hunt, if they kill the elephant their poverty ends, if the elephant kills them, their poverty ends.
I want to share my experience with a widower 17 years ago.
He mentioned his wife died with 7 months pregnancy.
He invited me over to his home, which he built together with the late wife.
Upon arrival to the house, I feel very uncomfortable, even though it was a very big rancher, nice and suitable for a family.
I am one of those women who will walk away even if you have the whole world to give financially, if I can't find peace around you.
I then began to think about the dead woman.
So, I proceeded to pray about it by sharing with a ccc prophet then.
The prophet told me affirmatively that he killed his wife and i must not have anything to do with him.
I didn't even bother go back to discuss with him.
He later called me and complain that I withdrew from him, i told him straight that, you killed your late wife.
He said, who told me that, I asked him, is it true? He said no that it's not true that it was his side woman who did, but he's been told he did too.
So I asked him, what happened.
He said he was dating a lady and the lady wanted marriage but because he was married, he couldn't commit to marriage with him.
So, the said lady went ahead to be diabolical and killed his wife to make it appear like pregnancy complications.
Hmmmmm.
I asked him, how did he know that, he said, when his wife died, families were furious and everyone was visiting different places and it was the same result.
So, he confronted her and she admitted to doing it, so he can marry her.
He said, this was why he couldn't marry her afterwards.
I told him, I'm sorry, but, I honestly don't like drama and can't be with a man who's capable of cheating on his pregnant wife.
Since then, i was very weary around men whose wife died.
I always do my questioning like I'm investigating a murder case. ๐
Unknown to many men, that lady you're so very much involved with, who has refused to let go despite knowing that you're married, can do anything to get your wife off the radar.
Alot of women are diabolical and people no longer hides it.
Many women who are spiritually grounded will tell you how they fight in the spirit against untimely death.
Men must learn boundaries.
You are not created to solve every ladies lonely moments.
Most of these are traps.
Stop destroying your own marriage and rendering your kids motherless.
Above all, a woman must girdle herself with prayers and earnestly ensure her marriage is cluster free.
May we not die untimely death. Amen.