All your problems are your own fault. Your lack of discipline. Your lack of confidence. Your lack of responsibility. Your lack of ability to make decisions. Stop complaining. Change now.
Mark Manson on how to win at life:
1. Commit to doing a hard thing.
2. Do the hard thing.
3. Feel good about doing the hard thing.
4. Become someone who enjoys doing hard things.
Your brain's main job isn't to make you successful or happy, it's to keep you safe and comfortable. That is why anything new or uncertain feels terrifying, even when it is great for your growth.