Unfortunately, I do want a provider. I do want a protector. I do want a leader. I do want a dominant man. I do want emotional maturity and effective communication. I do want mental stability. I do want to be spoiled. I do want self awareness. I do want clingy, obsessed and safe. I do want someone who chooses me every time. And nobody is going to make me feel bad for wanting those things in a partner.
unfortunately, i don’t like nonchalant men. be present, check on me, be affectionate. tell me i’m gorgeous, plan the dates, bring the flowers, act like you actually want me in your life. Be absolutely obsessed with me