"A woman should never have to pay rent. Yes, I said it. If you’re a man and you claim to be a husband, you should be able to provide at least shelter for your wife. You’re meant to be a provider. You’re meant to be a protector. So this whole idea of splitting rent with a woman is new. You have to pay the rent.
In that same vein, if you’re a woman, your husband has no business doing any chores in the house. Your husband has no business doing chores. You need to cook. You are a woman. You cannot be asking for a provider when you don’t want to embrace your maternal instinct in its entirety.
Your husband provides the finances; you build the home. You wash his clothes, cook, and you make sure you turn the house into a home. If you believe the man should exclusively provide, then you should exclusively be domesticated.
Now, that is where a lot of modern women are hypocritical. You want a man who’s going to cook with you because it’s thoughtful. You want a man who’s going to help you in the kitchen, assist you with the chores in the house. The cleaning and washing. But you don’t want to contribute to the rent. That’s the issue. The hypocritical standards.
I know some girls who keep saying, “A man has to pay the rent.” Then I ask them, “I hope you’re fine with being the only one doing the cooking, so when the guy comes back from work, his food should be ready, and he shouldn’t be found in the kitchen assisting you because he’s already paid his part.”
They’re like, “No, you know, you have to be thoughtful.” You guys are not serious. You’re not serious. You can’t eat your cake and have it. If you want him to exclusively provide, then you have to exclusively be domesticated.
So, as a man, you need to shine your eyes and stand really firm. If she wants an exclusive provider, you must demand an exclusive traditional woman. Simple. If she can’t do it, then let her go with her double standards..."
- Relationship coach Solomon Buchi stir reactions online after saying men who pay the rent should not be expected to do house chores.
And i completely agree with him.
When you stay single for too long, you reach a point of no return where you become so accustomed to your own company that any form of human connection feels like a disruption or an inconvenience.
It's so selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their peace because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.
Breakups in your 30s hit differently. It's not the same as heartbreak at 21. At 21, you cry, vent to friends, go out, distract yourself, and somehow you heal. Back then, life felt long, full of possibilities, what ifs, and( second chances). But in your late 20s or as you approach your 30s, it feels different. You are not only losing a person. You are losing plans, routines, and the version of yourself that was building a future with them.
They want you to provide, But you shouldn't ask to be in authority. When it's time to pay bills, you're the man. When it's time for authority, we're equal. My brother, stop being a mumu. Responsibility without authority is Simping.
Nyinyi hutaka tuwaamini mko kwa aunty zenu na hakukuwa na stima the whole weekend but the moment unapatana lipgloss kwangu yenye mimi hupaka nikiwa jaba unajam.
Some of you enter relationships like you're the prize. Meanwhile they've already met people richer, funnier and better looking than you.
Your'e just another random horny mf.