my biggest gripe with everyone now being an adhd queer autist with dementia is that these labels are the catchall excuse for every loser who fails to achieve anything -- unless you're in the small minority of people who are so severely disabled by one or more of these things
that you genuinely cannot function, like a vegetable, then you have no excuse. A description of your psychological makeup doesn't render you inoperative. If anything it gives you the means to succeed. You know what's wrong so fix it. Solve the problem. That might be difficult.
I am looking for a partner. If you would like to talk, please do reach out! It’d be really wonderful. Link to the date-me doc is below; now pls pls pls pls algorithm send this far and wide!