If someone is giving you a place to stay, don't behave like a guest every single day. Wash the dishes, mop the floor, clean the bathroom, buy food once in a while. Contribute. Gratitude is shown through actions, not just "thank you."
My hot take is that as women, we need to let ourselves be, more and more. Wear your natural nails, your natural lashes, rock your fro. For Chrissakes, we’re human beings not machines. The whole “maintenance” and now “beauty maxxing” culture has always rubbed me off the wrong way. Women please breathe and live! There’s nothing wrong with your natural state!
Back to this:
Imagine your wife winning PS5 at the office and she gives another man at the office with smiles and pictures.
And she comes home to tell you then gaslight you that you're overreacting when you complain.
I swear she hates you.
No job is worth dying for. If you’re physically exhausted, take some time off. If anything bad happens to you, they will replace you one week later and move on.
I'm at a point in my life where I pray to keep meeting the right people. People who genuinely want the best for me, hold me in high regard, and add peace to my life.