Adam Atomic

You perform. You provide. You feel off.
I work with driven men on what's underneath.

[Adam Atomic @AdamAtomic_]

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The moment I stopped running wasn't dramatic.

Free afternoon. No task. No call. Nothing urgent.

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That discomfort was useful.

What I found wasn't great at first. But it was real in a way the performance wasn't.

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Et maintenant ils dirigent des équipes, des familles, des projets. Avec un réservoir qui se vide tranquillement.

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Prendre soin des autres c'est bien. Ne pas savoir prendre soin de toi, c'est une dette qui finit par se rembourser d'une façon ou d'une autre.

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C'est pas de l'altruisme. C'est qu'ils ont appris très tôt que leurs besoins à eux créaient des problèmes.

Alors ils ont arrêté de les exprimer. Jusqu'à ce que ça devienne normal.

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Le truc que j'observe le plus souvent chez les hommes qui réussissent :

Ils savent exactement ce dont tout le monde autour d'eux a besoin. Ils ont du mal à dire ce dont eux ont besoin.

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You've been on since 7am. Available, responsive, making decisions.

You're good at it. That's not the problem.

The problem is you don't know how to turn it off.

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And somewhere in the back of your head you're starting to wonder if there's a version of you that exists outside of being useful to everyone else.

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You sit in your car for a few minutes before going inside.

Not because you don't want to see your family. You need a moment where no one needs anything from you.

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@totoche Excellent ! Shut up and take my money

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@Azimzsz @totoche C'est a dire?

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He handles everything. Alone.

Makes decisions without asking. Carries without complaining. Never shows doubt.

Everyone says: that guy is solid.

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The armor that kept him safe is now keeping everyone out.

And he genuinely doesn't know how to take it off without feeling like he disappears.