My old account got suspended.
Lost the followers. Lost the posts. Lost the progress.
But here's what they couldn't take:
→ The skills I'm building
→ The story I'm telling
→ The direction I'm heading
New account. Same mission.
@aya_love0529 Women want to feel seen, heard and valued especially after childbirth and yes not by gifting alone but by also being present, let them see that you want to get involved in raising the child you both birth, do things together
A lot of men hide behind "I'm not used to this kind of thing" talk. But here's the reality, we are both new to this situation, but still we have to try and work it out together. And this involves the man being empathetic to his wife, being selfless. When I gave birth to my last baby, we were far away from family, my husband was present all through, I literally did nothing. It wasn't easy for him but he still managed to be present
That line "husband who kept proclaiming outside that he had become a father but was just a husband inside the home" hits hard and that's the reality of alot of women.
Personally, I wont even call him a husband bcos if he was a husband he would know how to care for the wife at least.
This is so relatable😂😂😂 and honestly I don't get why the "thank you" is so important to them when they don't even say it out to you.
Anytime I accuse my of not saying thank you to me he would respond by saying "it is not until I say it out loud, but deep down I appreciate you", bro I need my thank you while I'm alive, say it out to me 😂😂