Men are supposed to lead the relationship, not match the energy of women. Women are reciprocators not initiators. The man leads she follows. The man makes the effort and she mirrors it. It’s simple.
Men are not attractive anymore and im not even talking about looks. they are so disrespectful, want princess treatment, can't communicate, can't connect emotionally, immature and more.. is a complete turn off.
Marry me so I can film you doing regular everyday shit and I'll edit little movies of our lives so you can see how beautiful you are to the rest of the world.
i like build relationships, connects.. rapport with people over time. i have found that is the best way for me. i have found for me the quick and fast shit is exactly that. i love the slow burn and they consistency and the seeing you thru seasons and vice versa to see if we even
i begged for effort. not perfection. i begged for time. not forever. i begged for honesty. not promises. but apparently, even the bare minimum was too much to ask.
If love finds me again, I hope it comes from a person who is willing to treat me right. A person who never makes me question my worth, a person who doesn't make me beg for love and doesn't make me feel stupid in love.
Y’all lack communication skills because instead of taking what the other person is saying into consideration... You become defensive bc you only listening to defend the points that make you look bad. That's the disconnect right there.