My general rule for feeling mentally well is understanding that the more I judge others negatively, the more I anticipate negative judgement from others. Practicing kindness and leniency and forgiveness has no guarantee of reciprocation, but it puts you in a better state of mind.
Whoa,didn’t think that would gain traction but since you’re here. I’ll defend Aiah’s Current friends bc they are clearly making her happy. Slurs/hate in Kyle’s IGs over a friendship are so unnecessary. If someone’s happiness makes you this upset, go touch grass and be kinder.
If this friendship is one of the MANY reasons (her family, close friends in Manila/cebu/the world, her advocacies, her career, her business, her hobbies, her self love) that Aiah is glowing lately then full support and will burn anyone who ruins this. Also....
@colsinekj If you’ve seen the hate post the guy is getting on every single Instagram he is posting of just him and the slurs and tags Aiah and him are getting..it’s actually necessary
if you spend all day at a fish market, you’ll leave smelling like fish, even if you never touched one
but spend your day in a perfume shop and you’ll carry the scent even if you didn’t buy anything, that’s how environment works. it rubs off, whether you realize it or not. stay around complainers and everything starts to look negative. stay around excuse makers and growth feels optional but get around people who move with purpose, you’ll feel it.
get around people who live in gratitude, you’ll start to see differently. the scent of your environment will always follow you.
Kyle has been through a lot (watch that edward barber/kyle interview) and he is kind and fits her description..friendship or whatever..he totally does 💯
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Yung hindi lang mabait sa akin but in general mabait sya sa lahat kase yung puso nya ay totoong kabaitan lang yung laman. Yung tipong mga bata, matanda, parents, aso, or sino man yan ay naturally nag ggravitate sa kanya kase ang calming at peaceful ng aura nya.
But for now, I am not there in that zone yet. I guess that’s what I also learned this year especially na nag sstart akong mag solo travel and I do things independently all the times na I realized, okay lang naman pala ako at na ako lang. I am happy on my own and I can create happiness on my own. And to be honest, okay lang din sakin in life na ako lang kahit tumanda man ako kase ang peaceful din naman pala pag ikaw lang mag isa. I don’t feel lonely, instead I feel free just being in my own happy bubble. So finding a future partner doesn’t pressure me at all. If meron in the future, thank you Lord. If wala, thank you Lord din haha
Basta sabi ko sa sarili ko na if I am gonna be with someone in the future, yun na yun. Hopefully someone who’s such a great person and can bring more peace to my life. It’s either that or I just stick to my own peace aka myself in which I am already happy haha
Anyways, Bini is life and I am grateful that the Bini life is my life right now so yan muna focus ko 😌
Reading a book and coming across a character's name that you don't know how to pronounce, so for the rest of the book, every time you see it, your brain just goes ‘skdjfkskakfk.’
Reading a book and coming across a character's name that you don't know how to pronounce, so for the rest of the book, every time you see it, your brain just goes ‘skdjfkskakfk.’